Be Irresistible Tip #12
Posted on October 21, 2008 - Filed Under 3396 |
I
have a beautiful wind chime hanging outside my studio. We have a breeze
every afternoon and the sound is heavenly. This particular chime
contains the notes of Beethoven’s Ode to Joy and every now and then you
can hear that melody within the cluster of notes.
This morning, instead of hearing the usual harmony, I heard
something like this. Ding. Ding. Ding. Clank. I know this gets lost in
translation but bear with me. I haven’t gone out to inspect it yet, but
I have a feeling one of the pipes is wrapped around one of it’s sisters
strings.
Even though most of the pipes are hanging and ringing properly, it
is amazing how that single ?clank’ makes my hair stand up on end. The harmony of the whole completely altered by one piece out of tune.
I know just how that wind chime feels. My life can be going really
well in many areas. Smooth sailing, soul satisfying events and
contentedness are definitely a part of my daily life. But, then there
are those annoying out of tune parts. No matter how hard I try to hide
them from the breezes of life, they insist of clanging away creating
disharmony. Plus, if the truth were told, most of my out of sorts
moments come because I am tangled up in someone else’s drama.
Let me give you an example. At the moment, my health is great, my
career is developing nicely, my romantic life is rich and entertaining,
my weight is good, my finances are balancing after a challenging time
and all of that feels really good. But still I struggle with worry
about my adult kids, bless them.
If I allow my mind to dwell on their circumstances, I am pulled
surely and tangibly out of balance. I tell myself, out loud so I can
hear it, “That is their drama and they can handle it.?
Learning to choose what I am going to spend my time thinking
about has been life altering, to say nothing of the lovelier melody I
am when I am completely in tune.
How do you know you have a clanking chime? Just like the fingernails
down the chalkboard kind of feeling you get hearing a flat note, your
body will give you clues about being out of tune. Some feel a general
all over edgy feeling, some get pain in their shoulder or lower back,
some get digestion upset and others just feel heavy and sluggish.
Once you recognize that you are just out of tune, you can do something about that right away. Go outside
and take a couple of deep breaths, take a brisk walk and shake it
off?.literally. This will automatically energize you. You will add
dimension if you talk to a like minded friend, someone who will focus
the conversation on positive aspects of your situation.
What does any of this have to do with making your man perfect? Everything!
If your man does not have to take responsibility for your mood, if you
can recognize and attend to your own emotional balance, he will feel
his own share of relief. Most guys are ill equipped naturally to ?tune’
us, you know, to say just the right thing to change our perspective.
When you are caring for your own inner harmony, you make yourself that much more irresistible to him. There is nothing more appealing than a calm , confident and joyful woman.
What tune are you playing these days?
About the author
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Tags: adult kids, breezes, circumstances, ding ding, disharmony, fingernails, harmony, Health, lost in translation, melody, ode to joy, out of sorts, pipes, romantic life, smooth sailing, truth, wind chime, worry
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